Category Archives: Loving Life

Do you have your goals…or do your goals have YOU?

Goals are a curious thiDo you have your goals...or do your goals HAVE YOU? ng

Where do they come from? Who said they were the right goals? Why do I see meeting my quota as a goal and running a marathon as not a goal? How did that get wired?

Why “goals” anyway?

Seems like we’re supposed to have goals, right? But, have we even examined why we have the goals we do? Have you? How do they serve you? DO they serve you?

The ATTAINABLE goals…the goals with the glory!

Somehow, the goals that I have achieved in my life – yes, even EXCEEDED – with wild and flying colors – seem to have PICKED ME!

It’s like a secret, strong, and silent voice urged me to GO FOR that one thing. And it was EASY to commit, even felt natural. It does NOT MEAN they were easy to achieve, but I had the heart – the gusto – the “over-my-dead-body” about them.

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I’m wondering…

Am I setting the goals I think I “should” set?

Am I setting goals because setting goals is the right thing to do?

Or, am I paying attention to that inner pull? Maybe “my purpose”?

So, I’ve learned to trust the goals that HAVE ME!

They wake me up early in the morning. They drive me. They take me to the places that I want to go.

Can we take a moment and give ourselves over to the things that HAVE US?

Instead of the things that we “think” we should have?

Just a thought!

Love your goals UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

It’s first quarter, baby!

It's first quarter, baby! You today have 31 days to meet your first quarter goal. Are you confident you will get there? If yes, go read something else,

If you are a “maybe” or completely “not confident” keep reading:

Maybe

If you are maybe, take the time and map it out. What needs to happen in the next 31 days? How much looks like it’s going to happen? Make sure you have at least 2x Business committed to closing this month. What activity to you need to generate? Put the admin stuff aside…KEEP TALKING TO THE PEOPLE YOU EXPECT TO CLOSE … get people on the “closinig” track. Play to close it ALL – it will allow deals to fall out!

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Not Confident

Call your sales manager FIRST THING tomorrow and let them know you are worried about meeting your first quarter goal and start to brainstorm together (if your sales manager doesn’t LOVE you for this, find a new job). Create a plan and WORK IT.

Confident

Go for it! Make sure you are looking at reality and not fantasy.

Love your SUCCESS UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

Love ’em up!

Love 'em UP!I get comments from time-to-time – people ask me – “What does that even mean? ‘Love ’em up!’?”

Here’s what it means in short.

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As a salesperson, you will do WAY better when you love your support staff, your managers, and your customers UP!

As a spouse, you will do WAY better when you love your spouse, children, in-laws UP!

As a business owner, you will do WAY better to love your peers, your advisors, (and even sometimes your competition) UP!

When you love ’em UP! – you come from your most awesomesauce self. And then, magic starts to happen.

Love ’em UP! = MAGIC for everybody.

That is all.

Love ’em UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

The quote to sum it all up for the week – Why do right?

The quote to sum it all up for the week - Why do right?
The quote to sum it all up for the week – Why do right?

“People don’t do right because of the fear of God or love of him. You do right because the world doesn’t make sense if you don’t.”

~ Dorothy Allison, award-winning author

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Take a Stand

Take a StandA few years ago, I lost a friend.

This friend thought that I had done something to them, that I had not done.

No matter how I tried to reach out to heal the gap, they were not responsive.

I realized something at that time. It didn’t matter what they thought or how they acted towards me. EVERY SINGLE time I said something about them to others, it was positive – even though they were publicly nasty about me. EVERY TIME I saw them in passing, I was cordial, polite, and held the love in my heart that I truly have for them.

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Tonight, I ran into this person by accident, in a social situation that neither one of us could avoid. I held my love in my heart for them. And, after awhile, they came over and started talking with me. Asking about things that are important to me.

It seems small, but the healing has clearly begun. My other friend who was with me said, “Wow! I’m sorry you had to run into them. That must have been awful.”

“It was the opposite!”, I responded. “Today was the first step to the healing I have been wanting for years. It has begun!”

I am so grateful that I waited and did not engage in hurtful gossip or shunning or silly games.

When you take a stand for something, the stars MUST align. When you take a stand and stay true to what you want, ignoring everything contrary to your desire, it WILL come around.

It Will!

Love your stand UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

Are you more important?

Are you more important?Who do you measure yourself against?

How are you measuring up?

I invite you, for one moment, to take stock of the people who value you as important.

The world “seems” to say that if you are vastly wealthy and famous, that you are more important (I am NOT saying that you shouldn’t be vastly wealthy and famous – you should if you want to be!)

What I am saying is – It is possible that you haven’t taken stock of who you REALLY are. For yourself, for your peeps, for the world.

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There lies GREAT value in the person who likes to sit behind the scenes and listen. The engineer who builds the bridge and never has his name engraved on it – he/she holds great value to all who pass.

YOU are important if you care. Even if you care about the fact that you aren’t doing enough – It is a signal to you that you ARE important (right?)

You are here to carve out your place in the world. You may not realize it, but EVERYONE who sees you let someone in to a traffic jam, who watches you give a dollar to someone who needs it, sees you pick up a piece of litter in a bathroom…IT MATTERS.

If you want to achieve INVALUABLE wealth in this world, keep giving, every chance you get. It is noticed.

And, you will be famous among those who matter. And you will enjoy immeasurable wealth.

Love ’em UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

Don’t be worried about “Procurement”

Don't be worried about "procurement"
Don’t be worried about “procurement”

They are trained to tell you that they are negotiating with others.

It may or may not be true.

Love ’em up. Get them what they need. Have empathy for their job to “protect” the company from you.

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Close the deal!

Questions about this subject? Email me at salesgirl@irreverentsalesgirl.com.

Love your sales UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

HELP! How do YOU manage business travel?

I just got back to my office from a week of business travel.

Some of the meetings I had were VERY worth it – but there was a lot of “wasted” time.

In all of the years of selling, I have never figured out how to keep all of the balls in the air. Getting home, I am a teensy bit overwhelmed.

So, I want to hear. How do YOU keep the routines moving and catch up when you are back?

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Love the challenges UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

The quote to sum it all up for the week – Have you met Ross?

Have you met Ross? You can find him on Have you met Ross Martin?Twitter at @Ross_HOSTING.

Ross is an IT Sales Rep.

I love how he ends his profile on Twitter. “All opinions and misspellings are mine.”

I’m stealing this!

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Love your own stuff UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl

Wanna rule the world (or at least your corner of it)?

Wanna rule the world (or at least your corner of it)?

I met a wildly successful woman a few years back who was speaking about the secret to her self-made and self-launched line of perfumes.

When someone asked her how she did it so gracefully, she replied, “If you’re organized, you can do anything.”

It really stuck with me.

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What can YOU do to up your level of organization today? How much focus are you willing to put on being and keeping organized?

I want to hear! (Also, send tips and techniques!)

Love your life UP!

The Irreverent Sales Girl